Amitabh Bachchan next appears in ‘Pink’.
Bollywood megastar Amitabh Bachchan’s open letter written to his granddaughters – 4-year-old Aaradhya and 18-year-old Navya Naveli Nanda is full of with wisdom, good advice and life lessons for the young generation.
In his letter, Big B of Bollywood reminds Navya and Aaradhya that they are not only bearers of famous last names but also girls. He reminds them that their gender attracts the attention of people who will tell them how to lead their lives just because they are fair sex.
Bachchan says the current world is difficult for a woman but this reality can be changed by next generation of girls like his granddaughters. He says if that can happen, it would be an honor to be known as Aaradhya and Navya’s grandfather rather than the fame he has acquired through decades of acting.
“Don’t let anyone make you believe that the length of your skirt is a measure of your character. Don’t let anyone’s opinion of who you should be friends with, dictate who you will be friends with. Don’t get married for any other reason other than you want to get married. People will talk. They Shall say some terrible things. But that doesn’t mean you have to listen to everyone. Never ever worry about- log kya kahenge,†the actor writes.
Amitabh Bachchan next appears in ‘Pink’, a film that examines how women are subjected to the ‘force thinking’ and ‘boundaries’ he lists in his letter. The movie, co-starring Taapsee Pannu, tells the story of three young women accused of extortion by the men against whom they filed a complaint of sexual assault.
Read the full-text of Amitabh Bachchan’s letter to his granddaughters:
My very dearest Navya & Aaradhya
You both carry a very valuable legacy on your tender shoulders – Aaradhya, the legacy of your Par Dadaji, Dr Harivansh Rai Bachchan…and Navya, the legacy of your Par Dada , Shri H P Nanda….
Both your Par Dadajis’ gave your present surnames celebrated fame, dignity and recognition !
Both of you maybe a Nanda or a Bachchan, but you are also girls…women !
And because you are women people will force their thinking, their boundaries on you.
They will tell you how to dress, how to behave, who you can meet and where you can go.
Don’t live in the shadows of people’s judgement. Make your own choices in the light of your own wisdom.
Don’t let anyone make you believe that the length of your skirt is a measure of your character.
Don’t let anyone’s opinion of who you should be friends with, dictate who you will be friends with.
Don’t get married for any other reason other than you want to get married.
People will talk. They shall say some terrible things. But that doesn’t mean you have to listen to everyone. Never ever worry about - Log Kya Kahenge !
At the end of the day, you are the only one who will face the consequences of your actions, so don’t let other people make your decisions for you.
Navya – the privilege your name, your surname offers you, will not protect you from the difficulties you will face because you’re a woman.
Aaradhya – by the time you see and understand this, I may well not be around. But I think what I am saying today shall still be relevant.
This may be a difficult, difficult world to be a woman. But I believe that it is women like you that will change that.
It may not be easy, setting your own boundaries, making your own choices, rising above people’s judgement. But YOU !…you can set an example for women everywhere.
Do this and you would have done more than I have ever done, and it will be my honor to be known not as Amitabh Bachchan, but as your grandfather !!
With all my love
Your ….Dadaji ….your Nana
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— Amitabh Bachchan (@SrBachchan) September 4, 2016
